Fix connection leaks: Ensure that any pending connection open are cancelled/undo when ActiveCall is unmounted (#3255)

* Better logs for connection/component lifecycle

* fix: `AudioCaptureOptions` was causing un-necessary effect render

AudioCaptureOptions was a different object but with same internal values, use directly deviceId so that Object.is works properly

* fix: Livekit openned connection leaks

* review: rename to AbortHandles

* review: rename variable

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Co-authored-by: Timo <toger5@hotmail.de>

src/livekit/useLivekit.ts

@@ -155,9 +155,7 @@ export function useLivekit(
   );
 
   const connectionState = useECConnectionState(
-    {
-      deviceId: initialDevices.current.audioInput.selectedId,
-    },
+    initialDevices.current.audioInput.selectedId,
     initialMuteStates.current.audio.enabled,
     room,
     sfuConfig,