feat: La Suite email/messages, buildkitd, monitoring, vault and storage updates

- Add Messages (email) service: backend, frontend, MTA in/out, MPA, SOCKS
  proxy, worker, DKIM config, and theme customization
- Add Collabora deployment for document collaboration
- Add Drive frontend nginx config and values
- Add buildkitd namespace for in-cluster container builds
- Add SeaweedFS remote sync and additional S3 buckets
- Update vault secrets across namespaces (devtools, lasuite, media,
  monitoring, ory, storage) with expanded credential management
- Update monitoring: rename grafana→metrics OAuth2Client, add Prometheus
  remote write and additional scrape configs
- Update local/production overlays with resource patches
- Remove stale login-ui resource patch from production overlay

base/lasuite/messages-socks-proxy-deployment.yaml

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+apiVersion: apps/v1
+kind: Deployment
+metadata:
+  name: messages-socks-proxy
+  namespace: lasuite
+spec:
+  replicas: 1
+  selector:
+    matchLabels:
+      app: messages-socks-proxy
+  template:
+    metadata:
+      labels:
+        app: messages-socks-proxy
+    spec:
+      containers:
+        - name: messages-socks-proxy
+          image: messages-socks-proxy
+          ports:
+            - containerPort: 1080
+          env:
+            - name: PROXY_USERS
+              valueFrom:
+                secretKeyRef:
+                  name: messages-socks-credentials
+                  key: PROXY_USERS
+            - name: PROXY_SOURCE_IP_WHITELIST
+              value: 10.0.0.0/8
+          resources:
+            limits:
+              memory: 128Mi
+              cpu: 100m
+            requests:
+              memory: 32Mi
+              cpu: 25m