bump rust to 1.82.0, rocksdb v9.7.3, ruwuma, and a few nix pkgs

Signed-off-by: strawberry <strawberry@puppygock.gay>

src/service/sending/sender.rs

@@ -479,6 +479,8 @@ impl Service {
 						.collect::<Vec<_>>(),
 				)))
 					.into(),
+				ephemeral: Vec::new(),
+				to_device: Vec::new(),
 			},
 		)
 		.await