bump ruma, adjust a couple lines of docs

Signed-off-by: strawberry <strawberry@puppygock.gay>

Cargo.toml

@@ -1,6 +1,6 @@
 [package]
 name = "conduit"
-description = "a cool fork of Conduit, a Matrix homeserver written in Rust"
+description = "a cool hard fork of Conduit, a Matrix homeserver written in Rust"
 license = "Apache-2.0"
 authors = [
     "strawberry <strawberry@puppygock.gay>",
@@ -403,7 +403,7 @@ copyright = "2024, Timo Kösters <timo@koesters.xyz>"
 license-file = ["LICENSE", "3"]
 depends = "$auto, ca-certificates"
 extended-description = """\
-a cool fork of Conduit, a Matrix homeserver written in Rust"""
+a cool hard fork of Conduit, a Matrix homeserver written in Rust"""
 section = "net"
 priority = "optional"
 assets = [